Friday, October 19, 2007

It's not as bad as all that...

We sometimes forget that you guys aren't here with us, and don't have all the context that we do. I guess that's what makes good drama, huh?

It IS dramatic, life here... teenagers who are abused, whose parents DON'T actually love them, who will never receive more than the equivalent of a US sixth grade education.

But, because we live in this and have more context, we do understand that the impromptu quasi-lynching was about them not ever having been called to something higher or better.

It all started because they were dragging Joel to come apologize to us for an earlier wrong. Then it became more fun to tie him up and watch him thrash around than to counsel him to apologize. So... there was good intention in there somewhere.

As for the group mutiny, this is par for course. They are not used to a loving expectation and want to show that they, too, have power. It will pass as fast as it came, but it still makes us want to pull our hair out. They won't actually leave - what we offer is too good; the promise of a God that loves them, a life better than what they can see, and the occasional Domino's pizza.

So, keep praying and thank you for responding. Your encouragement means a lot... but don't worry too much. We (and you) have faith that God knows the full context and continues to course-correct all of our days that are like Wednesday.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think what's really encouraging is what you mentioned on an earlier blog about how some of the parents are getting involved. That is so exciting and encouraging. God is truly using the both of you to make things better on this earth-it started before you guys were even born, when you went to ACU, when you got to Otter Creek, how you guys met and where you are now. What an amazing journey you guys have traveled so far! It only gets better because you have God at the top...and because you have TONS of friends and family praying for you every single day along the way. These boys, whether they show it or not, appreciate you guys. Chin up! ;o) Love you guys!-Angelica

Anonymous said...

P.S. I know they won't leave...how can you say "no" to Twister, Sorry, Connect 4, and, most importantly, those golden medals!! ;o)

Angelica

Anonymous said...

TJ and Holly,

I think about you and the kids often. You are in my prayers.

On a lighter note, I'll be dressing up as a chicken, well fried (sunburned) chicken, for Halloween. Maybe I'll do one more round of the chicken dance!

Go with God,

Susan

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